Idiot Box.

I took a photo of myself on the way home. I feel a little good...

Wed, 22 May 2013 14:41:33 +1000

I took a photo of myself on the way home. I feel a little good about myself for the first time in a long time.

floralnymph: e.e. cummings

Wed, 22 May 2013 11:30:28 +1000

floralnymph:

e.e. cummings

deerbody replied to your photo: Also got these as a gift from my sister and you… WHERE Most...

Tue, 21 May 2013 19:03:55 +1000

deerbody replied to your photo: Also got these as a gift from my sister and you…

WHERE

Most likely K-Mart? They’re pretty old though. Sorry I couldn’t be more help!

Today I realised that when I wear my black skinny leg jeans and my little pixie boots I feel like an...

Tue, 21 May 2013 18:46:57 +1000

Today I realised that when I wear my black skinny leg jeans and my little pixie boots I feel like an overweight female version of The Doctor from the waist down.

beards beards beards beards. (◕‿◕✿)

Tue, 21 May 2013 18:05:30 +1000

beards beards beards beards. (◕‿◕✿)

"Man will never be free until the last king is strangled with the entrails of the last priest"

Mon, 20 May 2013 21:13:14 +1000

“Man will never be free until the last king is strangled with the entrails of the last priest”

- Denis Diderot (via rancor-wrestling)

benjamingrimes: I had the privilege of shooting Taylor...

Mon, 20 May 2013 20:52:09 +1000

benjamingrimes:

I had the privilege of shooting Taylor Hoff’s home in San Francisco. Such a beautiful and well organized space.

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Jesus christ people make me happy and positive and wow people can really rock sometimes.

Mon, 20 May 2013 19:47:52 +1000

Jesus christ people make me happy and positive and wow people can really rock sometimes.

"You don’t know anyone at the party, so you don’t want to go. You don’t like cottage cheese, so you..."

Mon, 20 May 2013 17:15:26 +1000

“You don’t know anyone at the party, so you don’t want to go. You don’t like cottage cheese, so you haven’t eaten it in years. This is your choice, of course, but don’t kid yourself: it’s also the flinch.

Your personality is not set in stone. You may think a morning coffee is the most enjoyable thing in the world, but it’s really just a habit. Thirty days without it, and you would be fine. You think you have a soul mate, but in fact you could have had any number of spouses. You would have evolved differently, but been just as happy.

You can change what you want about yourself at any time. You see yourself as someone who can’t write or play an instrument, who gives in to temptation or makes bad decisions, but that’s really not you. It’s not ingrained. It’s not your personality. Your personality is something else, something deeper than just preferences, and these details on the surface, you can change anytime you like.

If it is useful to do so, you must abandon your identity and start again. Sometimes, it’s the only way.

Set fire to your old self. It’s not needed here. It’s too busy shopping, gossiping about others, and watching days go by and asking why you haven’t gotten as far as you’d like. This old self will die and be forgotten by all but family, and replaced by someone who makes a difference.

Your new self is not like that. Your new self is the Great Chicago Fire—overwhelming, overpowering, and destroying everything that isn’t necessary.

”

- Julien Smith . (via cavum)

Hitting up Melbourne in July. Give me people to visit and I will be infinitely happy.

Mon, 20 May 2013 15:23:39 +1000

Hitting up Melbourne in July. Give me people to visit and I will be infinitely happy.

oh, to be young again, and also a robot.: Exploring Emotionally Abusive Relationships

Mon, 20 May 2013 15:13:11 +1000

oh, to be young again, and also a robot.: Exploring Emotionally Abusive Relationships:

all-about-male-privilege:

onlinecounsellingcollege:

Characteristics of an emotionally abusive relationship include:

·         Using money as a means of control

·         Threatening to walk out or abandon you

·         Creating fear and anxiety through looks, words, threats and actions

·         Destroying things (and often things you value) – either in a cold and heartless way, or in an angry fit of rage

·         Using blaming, shaming, minimizing and denial to control you

·         Verbally attacking and demeaning you (includes name calling, shouting at you, criticising and putting you down – especially in public)

·         Attacking and putting you down in private, and acting loving and charming in public

·         Minimising the abuse; acting as if you’re over-reacting and it’s “no big deal”

·         Deliberately withholding approval, affirmation and affection as a means of punishment or control

The effects of living with emotional abuse include:

·         A fear of being natural and spontaneous

·         A loss of enthusiasm

·         Insecurity related to how they coming across to others

·         An inner belief that they are deeply flawed

·         A loss of self-confidence and self esteem

·         Growing self-doubt (so they’re afraid to make even the smallest decision, or to take on even the simplest of tasks)

·         Never trusting their own judgment (as they believe that they’re likely to get it wrong, or to misunderstand or misread everything)

·         Having a constant critic in their head

·         Feeling they should be happier and more upbeat than they are (in order to meet the approval of others)

·         Feeling they’re too sensitive, and ought to “toughen up”

·         Fearing they’re going crazy, or losing their mind

·         Having a tendency to live in the future (“Everything will be OK when/after ….”)

·         A desire to break free, escape or run away

·         A distrust and fear of entering into any close relationships again.

Hello followers / friends. I saw this and thought it might be of use to some of you.

-dance

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Mon, 20 May 2013 11:30:25 +1000

creepisms: favourite picture ever

Mon, 20 May 2013 05:45:23 +1000

creepisms:

favourite picture ever

"I like art, and by art I mean music, poetry, sex, paintings, the human body, literature… All of this..."

Sun, 19 May 2013 22:03:38 +1000

“I like art, and by art I mean music, poetry, sex, paintings, the human body, literature… All of this is art to me.”

- Hunter Reveur (via shessofuckedinthehead)

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Sun, 19 May 2013 21:59:30 +1000

Sigur Ros is amazingly beautiful and Elliot and I cutely smiled at each other and played with each...

Sun, 19 May 2013 21:54:00 +1000

Sigur Ros is amazingly beautiful and Elliot and I cutely smiled at each other and played with each other’s hands during Isjaki’s play time on the radio in a car ride this afternoon. That kid is wonderful.

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